Ready to upgrade from average to awe-inspiring girth? This guide walks you through everything you need—proper lubrication, warm-up routines, insertion techniques, and stretching tips—plus our top picks for 2025.
1. Preparation & Lubrication
Generous Lube Application
XL dildos can stretch beyond your usual comfort zone. Always use a thick, water-based lubricant to minimise friction and help your muscles relax.
Warm-Up with Smaller Toys
Gradual dilation is key. Begin with a slim or medium-girth dildo—like our Real Feel 6 Inch Dildo —to gently stretch before moving up.
2. Insertion Techniques
- Start Slow: Align the tapered tip and insert just the first inch. Pause, breathe, and let your body adjust.
- Angles & Positions: Lie on your back with knees bent, legs apart, and a pillow under your hips; or squat over the dildo for total depth control.
- Progressive Depth: Once the widest part enters comfortably, pause again. Explore tiny in-and-out movements before full insertion.
3. Filling & Stretching Sensations
Some users love gentle twists to target all internal zones; others prefer slow, powerful thrusts. Always listen to your body—if you feel any sharp discomfort, back off and add more lube.
Don’t worry about “permanent looseness”: your muscles are naturally elastic and will return to normal within a day or two.
4. Top XL Dildos for 2025
Long Man 10 Inch Dildo (Brown)
Classic shape with firm, realistic texture and a sturdy flared base. Available in Flesh or Brown. Shop now
Real Lover 10" Suction Cup Dildo (Flesh)
Extra girth meets hands-free mounting. The built-in suction cup lets you go solo or strap it on. View product
The Darth Impaler 12" XL Dildo (Brown)
Not for the faint-hearted—firm, dual-density silicone with bold veining. Add to basket
The Impaler 13" Dildo (Brown)
Ultra-long, ultra-thick, and extra-textured for intense fullness. Shop The Impaler
The Behemoth 15" XL Dildo (Brown)
The ultimate stretch toy—massive girth with a firm, weighted feel. View details
5. Cleaning & Aftercare
Rinse your dildo under warm water, scrub gently with a toy cleaner or mild soap, then air-dry. Store it in a cloth bag to protect against dust.
