Becoming a human puppet might not be for everyone, but for some people, being able to take your partner's whole fist will be a hot and sexy experience. You’re in luck no matter if you prefer vaginal or anal penetration (both are achievable with patience) so let’s get down to business.
Firstly; stretching is the key to this. There is pretty much no one on earth who is going to be able to immediately take someone's whole hand. You’ve got to start small and work your way up. If your butt has previously been a one way street, there’s no way you’re going to be able to start fisting by taking a fist. Yes, a vagina can push out a baby. But most of the time tearing can occur which is why this part is so important (vaginal tearing or anal fissures are not compatible with sexy time).
Smaller dildos or plugs are where you want to begin. Anal training sets are a good place to start if that’s where you intend on taking it. They usually come in three sizes, small, medium, and large, so you can work your way up at the right pace for you. If you’re focused more on vagina stretching, instead of buying multiple toys of different sizes, inflatable dildos are a great option for stretching without breaking the bank (just be sure not to over pump them past their limit). A decent lubricant is always needed for anal play as you don’t produce any natural lubricant there and it is also highly recommended for maximum comfort using any toy vaginally as well. Water based lube is the way to go when using toys as some silicone based lubricants can cause damage to your toy through chemical reactions, although many people will recommend silicone based lube for the actual act of fisting due to its thicker feel.
Anal Training Kit: 3 Piece Set
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We love orgasms here at Sexy Emporium and want everyone to have as many as they can! But despite an orgasm usually being the grand finale of sexy times, they can actually be the place to begin when considering stretching yourself. Orgasms will help to relax your muscles ready for the act of training yourself to take bigger and bigger toys. The girthier the toy, the better for this type of play which is why we recommend the Minotaur- with an eye watering 10.4 inch circumference it’s perfect for when you need that practice to move up to bigger toys. If you’re considering anal penetration, douching is an option to consider to avoid any shit showing up before anal play. |
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Onto the main event! When you feel like your orifice can handle the larger toys, make sure your partner's hands are clean (gloves are recommended for reduced chance of infection) and use enough lubrication to insert one, then two fingers. If you’re still relaxed and it isn’t hurting, add a third and fourth finger. Stretching and fisting should always be comfortable- even if the feeling is unusual or takes some adjusting to you should only feel a stretch, not any pain. Your partner should then tuck their thumb into the palm of the hand, helping their fingers inch deeper. For the next part, the hand must be inserted past the knuckles so the hand can be curled into a fist and.... There we go! You’re being fisted! |
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When it’s time to remove the fist, slow and steady wins the race. Remove one finger at a time, going as slowly as possible. Do not simply yank the fist out of you- even if it’s time to stop. Take your time to remove the hand and fingers so no damage occurs. You might want to be distracted - a small vibrator that won’t get in the way can work wonders in distracting and relaxing the body for easy hand retrieval. |
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And yes, lubricants with numbing qualities exist. But I beg you to please not use them for fisting now matter how tempting - you need to be able to feel any amount of discomfort or pain so play can adjust or end. You might feel sore for a few days after which is normal, or even bleed a small amount (also normal). If bleeding continues after sex or if there’s any extreme amount of pain or discomfort, please seek medical attention. With that out of the way- happy fisting! |
Classic Anal Zeppelin
Kinx Aqua Slix Water-Based Lubricant 100ml
Mr Minotaur - Extra Thick Dildo
